I have trouble with posts that call for quotes. I don’t note them down as I’m reading, and I have a terrible memory. So only a few of these come directly from my own reading, the rest I vaguely remembered and had to look up. I’ve included a couple of quotes that stood out to me or touched me this year, but most of these quotes are about a topic I’ve been studying: racism. It’s such an important issue. It always has been, but it’s been getting discussed more, and I’m in full support of that. So here are some of the quotes that stood out to me on the topic.
First a couple that aren’t on topic:
“I began to realize that coming in such close contact with my own mortality had changed both nothing and everything. Before my cancer was diagnosed, I knew that someday I would die, but I didn’t know when. After the diagnosis, I knew that someday I would die, but I didn’t know when. But now I knew it acutely. The problem wasn’t really a scientific one. The fact of death is unsettling. Yet there is no other way to live.” – When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
“I will always aspire to contain my shit as best I can, but I am no longer interested in hiding my dependencies in an effort to appear superior to those who are more visibly undone or aching.” – The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson
And now on to some of my favourite quotes on race:
“I know what the world has done to my brother and how narrowly he has survived it. And I know, which is much worse, and this is the crime of which I accuse my country and my countrymen, and for which neither I nor time nor history will ever forgive them, that they have destroyed and are destroying hundreds of thousands of lives and do not know it and do not want to know it. One can be, indeed one must strive to become, tough and philosophical concerning destruction and death, for this is what most of mankind has been best at since we have heard of man. (But remember: most of mankind is not all of mankind.) But it is not permissible that the authors of devastation should also be innocent. It is the innocence which constitutes the crime.” – The Fire Next Time by James Baldwin
“Black people love their children with a kind of obsession. You are all we have, and you come to us endangered.” – Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
“And don’t make the mistake of calling us resilient. To not have been destroyed, to not have given up, to have survived, is no badge of honor. Would you call an attempted murder victim resilient?” – There There by Tommy Orange
“There’s no White History Month because we celebrate the accomplishments of white people Every. Single. Day. White people have always been esteemed in this country, have always been celebrated. Black people have had to push to celebrate themselves and their culture in public.” – Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man by Emmanuel Acho
“The entire narrative of this country argues against the truth of who you are.” – Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
“So many black families spend all of their time trying to fix the problems of the past. That is the curse of being black and poor, and it is a curse that follows you from generation to generation. My mother calls it ‘the black tax.’ Because the generations that have come before you have been pillaged, rather than being free to use your skills and education to move forward, you lose everything just trying to bring everyone behind you back up to zero.” – Born a Crime by Trevor Noah
“Where the really sincere people have got to do their ‘proving’ of themselves is not among the black victims, but out on the battle lines of where America’s racism really is – and that’s in their own home communities.” – The Autobiography of Malcolm X by Malcolm X and Alex Haley
“We should hope not for a colorblind society but instead for a world in which we can see each other fully, learn from each other, and do what we can to respond to each other with love. That was King’s dream – a society that is capable of seeing each of us, as we are, with love. That is a goal worth fighting for.” – The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
Most of these are books I’ve read, with the exception of the final quote which I’ve read, but haven’t yet completed the whole book. All of these ideas have stuck with me, though, and have informed my perspective on race and racism. I’d love to hear any quotes on this topic – or, if you can’t remember specific quotes, any books you’ve read that have left you with some important ideas to consider.
Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly link-up feature created by The Broke and the Bookish and hosted by Jana at That Artsy Reader Girl. Every week TTT has a different topic, and everyone who links up has to create a link of ten items that fit that topic. To see past and upcoming topics, go here.
I usually use post it, or take a picture of the phrase that I liked, and then write it 🙂 You choice important quotes, specially the one by Tommy Orange
Yeah, I do sometimes mark books (a lot of these are from books I read with a pencil to underline because there were so many passages that really stood out), but I listen to a lot of audiobooks, which makes it a little harder to mark – especially since many are from the library! I’m glad I managed to find some that seem to have struck other people as well, I love shared emotional responses to writing!
Excellent post. I’m sharing it on twitter.
I saw that – thank you so much!!
“You come to us endangered.” Wow.
I went off-topic this week: https://fiftytwo.blog/2021/11/09/ttt-books-you-recommend-the-most/
Happy TTT!
Lori
Yeah, that one squeezed my heart until it ached. As did many from that book. Parenthood is like one long panic attack because you can’t keep your kids safe, but that’s your one job. It’s terrifying. And I’m a very privileged White parent in a “safe” (at least pre-COVID) part of the world. I can’t imagine the strength it takes to raise a child who, as this says, comes to you endangered. I’d never sleep or breathe again.
The New Jim Crow was such a good read.
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I really need to finish it! What I’ve read from it was amazing, and I keep seeing it referenced and quoted all over the place.
I haven’t read any of these books, but I have to agree with the one from Trevor Noah.
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Yes! His book was actually amazing. I learned a lot from it!
Wow, these quotes are going to stay with me for a while. I’m pretty sure that the quote from When Breath Becomes Air actually made me shiver, it’s so powerful and so true.
I’m glad that they resonated with you! These are all ones that have stuck with me, some have cut DEEP. Like that one. I feel that so much!
I have trouble with quote posts, too!
My post: https://lydiaschoch.com/top-ten-tuesday-memorable-things-characters-have-said/
Ugh, right? I need to come up with a better system for keeping quotes I love. I’m terrible at it!
When Breath Becomes Air is on my TBR and based on the quote you’ve included, it’s going to be a very good read indeed. Happy reading! My TTT https://readwithstefani.com/top-ten-audiobook-recommendations/
It was an excellent book, and oddly inspiring. It’s really, really sad, but also gives courage to live with uncertainty, which is one of my main challenges in life!
That quote from When Breath Became Air broke my heart. I had a harder time on this list than I thought I would because I wanted to make sure I knew which character said the quote and my memory isn’t what it used to me. Hence I chose quotes from books I’ve read several times. Ha! My character quotes
Yeah, I think that’s one of the reasons I went with non-fiction! Even then it was not easy! But that’s a great solution!